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Saturday, January 10, 2026

Why Do People Consider Ending Their Own Lives?

This article discusses suicide from an educational and mental health perspective. Some readers or viewers may find the topic emotionally heavy. If you are struggling or know someone who is, please consider reaching out for support. You don’t have to face it alone.

If you are in Malaysia and need immediate support, you may contact Talian HEAL (15555), Befrienders, or local emergency services.


Across cultures and belief systems, ending one’s own life has long been viewed as a serious and troubling act. In many religions, it is considered a major moral wrongdoing. Historically, societies responded to such acts with punishment, shame, or exclusion rather than understanding.


In the 19th century, French psychiatrists such as Esquirol and Pinel introduced a different perspective. They viewed suicidal behaviour not as moral failure, but as a symptom of psychological distress or mental illness. This shift marked the beginning of a more compassionate, medical understanding of the issue.


So, what leads a person to this point?


Research shows that emotional suffering and psychological pressure are common contributors, but they are not the only factors. Some individuals who appear to live stable, “normal” lives may still experience inner turmoil that remains unseen by others.


During the early 20th century in Russia, individuals who attempted to end their lives were heavily stigmatised. They were labelled as mentally unstable and subjected to strict control, including limitations on employment and daily activities. Although the intention was prevention, the approach was harsh and often dehumanising. This system lasted until the early 1970s.


As suicide rates rose in countries such as Russia and Sri Lanka, concern grew. In Moscow, one of the first psychological counselling centres was established in the mid-1970s, focusing particularly on adolescents - a group increasingly affected. Psychiatrists and psychologists worked together, signalling a shift toward prevention and emotional support.


By the late 1980s, deeper contributing factors were identified. Alcohol abuse was widespread and often linked to loss of emotional control, but experts agreed that most suicide cases were not impulsive. They were often the result of prolonged inner struggle and careful contemplation.


Certain communities were found to have higher vulnerability. For example, Finno-Ugric populations in Hungary showed exceptionally high suicide rates. Cultural sensitivity to emotional stress and social pressure appeared to play a role. Similar patterns were observed among Finno-Ugric communities in Udmurtia, Russia, despite differences in lifestyle.


Among adolescents, studies suggest that suicidal thoughts often emerge during the early stages of emotional maturity. Feelings of failure, helplessness, intense emotional pressure, and identity confusion are common at this age. Bullying at school and substance abuse were identified as major contributing stressors.


In Russia, another high-risk group consists of individuals aged 40 to 50. For many, loneliness, difficulty accepting ageing, and struggles adapting to rapid social change contribute to emotional isolation.


Today, many countries have established counselling hotlines and mental health services aimed at early intervention. These services exist to offer support, understanding, and a listening ear. However, their effectiveness depends on one crucial step - the willingness of individuals to reach out.


Ending one’s life is not a solution, but often a signal of pain that has gone unheard for too long.


Friday, January 09, 2026

About Me

 Welcome to Destiny Code 食神.



This blog is a space where the art of living meets clarity - where insight becomes practical wisdom applied to real life. Here, I share psychology, hypnosis and therapy, tarot, emotional well-being, personal growth, and life experiences, alongside my interests in broader subjects such as metaphysics and UFO phenomena.


Some articles are written from personal experience and observation, while others are reflections based on learning and general knowledge. The aim is to encourage awareness, understanding, and thoughtful exploration of the human mind, emotions, and life paths.


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Thank you for visiting and taking the time to read.

Friday, January 02, 2026

UFOs on the African Continent

The African continent comprises more than 40 countries. However, documentation of UFO sightings from this continent is not as extensive as in Europe or America. Because many African countries are still plagued by poverty, famine, and unstable political power, the UFO phenomenon has not received full attention. This does not mean that there have been no UFO manifestations there. When UFO incidents do occur, they are usually known to the international community through reports by Europeans or Americans who are stationed in or visiting the continent.


One of the earliest UFO cases recorded in Africa occurred in Addis Ababa, Ethiopia. One day in October 1935, many local residents witnessed the appearance of a flying saucer hovering in the blue sky. At first, the presence of the object attracted a lot of attention. But when it remained in the sky for too long, many people eventually ignored it.


On 3 September 1954, many plantation workers in Souk-el-Khemis saw an object said to be made of a plastic-like material. At one point, the flying object stopped in mid-air and then swayed several meters above the ground. It then jumped several times erratically in the air before stabilising itself and continuing its flight.

During the devastating earthquakes in Orleansville, Algeria, on 9 September and 26 September 1954, a French citizen reported seeing numerous strange objects flying high across the country.

On 24 October 1954 near Oran, also in Algeria, a small-bodied alien creature was seen on the beach. The creature was said to have a pair of glowing eyes. When this alien appeared in Algeria, dozens of others like it were reported to have landed in France.


In the skies over Ndola, Rhodesia (Zimbabwe), eight flying saucers crossed the country heading north in a “W”-shaped formation. This incident was observed on 26 November 1957.


In April 1959, a round, green-coloured UFO appeared in southern Ethiopia. The object was seen moving erratically in the air over the town of Yergalem. Tunisia, located in the northern part of the continent, began to witness an increase in UFO sightings in the 1950s. 


In September 1965, an orange fireball-shaped UFO passed over Bulawayo in Zimbabwe. The appearance of the object reportedly shook house windows, fences, and caused streetlights to go out.


In Zambia on 15 June 1966, a small metallic-coloured UFO appeared at 1:20 p.m. The sky at that time was cloudless and blue. Suddenly, from another direction, the witnesses saw a second UFO appear. This second object approached the first. The two UFOs then merged in mid-air before departing.

F.C. Edwards, a European living in Botswana, witnessed a UFO shining like a star appearing from the north. The object seemed to hover briefly over Gaberones Airport. No sound was heard. It then changed direction and flew slowly southward.


Several residents of Mozambique were astonished to see a saucer-like object in the skies over Pungwe in Baiara on the night of 13 January 1967. They watched the object more closely when it emitted a white beam of light downward. They observed that when the light struck the clouds, the clouds turned purple. After a few minutes, the beam from beneath the object changed to a bright red colour, and the UFO sped away and disappeared from sight.

At the end of that year, another UFO appeared in Mozambique. On the night of 1 December 1967, near Bazaruto Island, 16 fishermen were startled by a large UFO. The object was said to be in the form of a glowing fireball. It passed over their boat at a distance of only a few yards and flew at great speed. They heard no sound at all. Everything was completely silent. While the UFO was flying there, the entire area became bright like daylight. The light emitted by the object was reported to be blue. The next day, the UFO was seen again at the same time, but this time it came from a different direction.



A UFO was said to have crashed in Madagascar in 1970. However, no official statement was issued by the authorities regarding the foreign object that exploded in a market in Port Dauphin.


High in the sky near Mount Kilimanjaro, Kenya, a passenger aircraft flying through the area encountered a UFO at 7:20 a.m. The pilot and passengers reported that the object was shaped like a bullet. Its size was estimated to be about 200 feet long. The object hovered near the mountain for a long time, as if observing something. Then all the witnesses saw it move upward rapidly into the sky.


At the southern end of the African continent is South Africa. The number of UFO sightings recorded in that country exceeds all other African nations combined. This is because there is strong interest among its European-descended population in investigating and documenting strange occurrences. The UFOs seen in South Africa are similar to those that appeared in other locations across Africa in 1972. That year can be described as the “Year of Visiting South Africa.


A police inspector and his wife saw three UFOs descend low and hover over a bushy area behind their house in Senghor, Senegal. The UFOs, which appeared on 21 October 1974, were said to be as large as an airplane. They then saw a being on the ground beneath the hovering object at a height of about 100 feet. The being looked human but was tall and thin. When the creature moved toward them, the police inspector fired a warning shot. The being was seen turning back, and the UFO descended lower and lifted it inside. The object then immediately sped away and left the area.


In Ghana near Afram, two local residents were planting corn when they noticed a strange object in the air. The object was flying low and close to them and appeared as if it was about to land. They quickly ran toward it. Suddenly, the UFO shot back up into the sky. The UFO seemed to dislike humans interfering with its activities.


In Kabule, Uganda, human activities were briefly disrupted when a UFO flew past a mining site. Many workers there became agitated when they saw a UFO flying in a nearby valley. The mine was located on a hill, and from that position they could see the object clearly. The UFO was flying lower than their position. They quickly shouted to call the mine manager, a Frenchman who was inside the mine at the time. He heard the shouting and commotion outside. But when he came out, the object had already maneuvered around a nearby hill and disappeared from view. One night, while the workers were watching a film, they became excited when a spaceship appeared in the movie. They said the strange object they had seen earlier looked exactly like the spaceship shown in the film.


A Canadian family living in Uganda also claimed to have seen UFOs in the same year. According to them, the foreign objects were saucer-shaped and flew in formation. They managed to take photographs of the objects before the UFOs disappeared.


On 16 September 1995 near Harare, also in Zimbabwe, 62 students from a school saw three UFOs flying in the air. One of them landed close to them. The situation became chaotic when an alien being about three feet tall, wearing a black uniform, emerged from the UFO. In the ensuing commotion, the UFO quickly took off again.


28 August 1996: Lights in the sky were videotaped near Pretoria; police and a helicopter reportedly tracked them but could not identify them. 

2000: A police inspector in Free State reported an orange, oval-shaped light approaching on the N3 highway; this was documented as a personal sighting. 

2004: A bright light that changed shape was seen near Durban and recorded by a resident. 

2009: Formation of multiple orange-red lights seen traveling high in the sky between Middelburg and Witbank

2010–2011: Silent triangle lights were reported over Pretoria and Krugersdorp

2015: People reported mysterious green lights over Cape Town that remained unexplained for some time. 

2016: A mysterious silent object spotted low in the sky near Harrismith was captured in photos by a witness. 

Between 2022 and 2024, the U.S. military’s All-domain Anomaly Resolution Office (AARO) received and archived unresolved UAP reports originating from Africa—including infrared footage showing an apparent object that could not be conclusively explained with available data. 

Sunday, October 20, 2024

Psychology and Spiritualism

 



I began reading Tarot Cards in 2007, but my journey with card reading (poker cards) started even earlier, when I was just 12. 
I kept my special abilities under wraps, but my curiosity in spiritualism is evident.
I even pursuing psychology alongside spiritualism to understand more about human experience and consciousness. 
Through metaphysical and psychological understanding, I help people connect with their inner selves, offering guidance, clarity, and insights into life's mysteries.
My approach is one of balance - to help others unlock their full potential and embrace the miracles life has to offer, whether through tarot readings, workshops on the Law of Attraction, or exploring the mysteries of consciousness.

Pursuing psychology alongside spiritualism is a good combination. Psychology primarily seeks to understand behaviour, thought processes, and emotions through scientific study, spiritualism looks at deeper metaphysical aspects like the soul, purpose, and connection with the universe. 
Psychology can help to ground and explain spiritual experiences by exploring how the mind perceives and interprets these events.

Psychological theories on consciousness, intuition, and altered states of mind, such as in meditation or trance, can offer insights into spiritual experiences. 
Trance/Flow, in psychology, is a state of heightened focus in an activity, often described as being "in the zone." Theories of flow explain that when individuals are fully engaged in an activity that challenges them just enough, they experience a sense of timelessness, effortlessness, and connection. Spiritually, this flow state can be compared to moments of divine connection or alignment with the universe, where an individual feels in sync with something greater than themselves. 
Meditation induces an altered state of consciousness where brainwave patterns shift, particularly increasing alpha and theta waves. Psychologically, these states are associated with deep relaxation, intuition, and heightened awareness - states that are often linked to spiritual experiences, such as feeling a sense of oneness, accessing subconscious wisdom, or receiving insights. Meditation allows the mind to quieten, which many spiritual traditions believe is essential for connecting with the higher self, the divine, or universal consciousness. 

Tuesday, August 13, 2024

The Myth of Limitless Manifestation

 



Myth: You Can Manifest Anything Without Limit
The idea that you can manifest anything without limit is a common yet misleading belief in the world of Law of Attraction. While the concept of limitless possibilities is appealing, it often disregards the practical realities of life, the natural laws that govern the universe.

Understanding the Myth
The myth of limitless manifestation suggests that you can attract anything into your life, no matter the circumstances or consequences. This notion is often perpetuated by oversimplified interpretations of the Law of Attraction, where the focus is solely on desire and visualisation without considering the broader context. It implies that the universe is a wish-granting entity that will deliver whatever you ask for, regardless of the natural order or the impact on others.

The Reality Check: Alignment with Universal Laws
While the Law of Attraction is a powerful tool, its effectiveness is amplified when used in alignment with universal laws. Here's why:

Boundaries of Natural Laws: The Law of Attraction functions within the framework of the natural laws of the universe. For example, no amount of visualisation can change the law of gravity or the necessity of hard work to achieve certain goals. When your manifestations are in harmony with these laws, they are more likely to come to fruition. Understanding these laws allows you to set realistic goals and work towards them with the right mindset.

Ethical Alignment: Your desires should not only be focused on personal gain but also consider the greater good. Manifesting with a selfish or harmful intent disrupts the universal balance and often leads to negative outcomes. For example, manifesting wealth at the expense of others' well-being or environmental destruction will not only harm others but may also backfire on you.

Interconnectedness: The universe is a web of interconnected energies, and your actions have a ripple effect. When your desires are aligned with the greater good, you are more likely to receive support from the universe. Positive intentions that contribute to the well-being of others create a flow of energy that supports your manifestations.

The Path to True Manifestation
True manifestation is not about bending the universe to your will without regard for natural laws or ethical considerations. Instead, it is about understanding the principles that govern the universe and working in harmony with them. This means:
Setting Realistic Goals: Understanding that some things cannot be manifested instantly or without effort. Align your desires with what is realistically achievable within the natural order.
Considering the Impact: Always think about how your manifestations will affect others and the world around you. Aim for outcomes that benefit not just yourself but also the greater good.
Acting in Harmony: Use the Law of Attraction to align your thoughts, feelings, and actions with universal principles. When you do so, you tap into a powerful flow of energy that supports your journey towards your goals.

While you can manifest many things in your life, it is important to remember that the Law of Attraction works best when it is in alignment with the natural laws of the universe and ethical considerations. By understanding and respecting these boundaries, you can create a life that is not only fulfilling for you but also in harmony with the world around you.

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