My Thoughts About the Law of Attraction (and Manifestation)

Here I want to share my personal perspective on the Law of Attraction (LoA) and Manifestation. I am not here to convince anyone to believe in it. Instead, I want to explain how I currently understand it after years of practising manifestation, studying psychology, and working with people.

One thing I have noticed is that many people misunderstand the LoA and Manifestation. Strictly speaking, there is a difference between them. 

The LoA is one specific theory or model of manifestation. It proposes that "like attracts like", meaning your dominant thoughts and emotions attract experiences of a similar frequency. According to LoA, if you consistently focus on abundance, you attract more abundance. If you constantly focus on lack, you attract more experiences of lack. 

Manifestation is the bigger picture. It refers to the process of bringing something into reality through your thoughts, beliefs, emotions, decisions, and actions. Different fields explain manifestation differently. Psychology, philosophy, spirituality, religion, and metaphysics all have their own way of looking at it. 

Even though they are different, most people use both terms interchangeably. 

Here a simple one: Law of Attraction = Car. Manifestation = Transportation. A car is one form of transportation, but transportation also includes bicycle, motorcycle, walking, train, and aeroplane. So, the LoA is one approach to manifestation, but not the only one. For example, if my goal is simply to own a car, then that is like using the LoA to attract a specific outcome. But if my actual goal is to reach a destination, then it doesn't really matter whether I get there by car, train, hot air balloon, or even a jet suit. As long as I reach the destination, that is manifestation.

One thing I often hear is people saying that all you need to do is think positively, make a vision board (which isn't part of my own practice), repeat affirmations (but without anchor, I don’t think it really works), then somehow the Universe will magically deliver everything you want (anything I need). I don't think affirmations work well without what I call an anchor. I will explain what I mean by that later.

Personally, to be honest, the LoA and Manifestation worked almost easy for me, until one day, I became super tired (exhausted). That was the turning point that made me question everything.

I think thoughts matter, beliefs matter, emotions matter, but there is much bigger system!

Let me give you an example. If you keep saying, "I am rich. I am rich. I am rich," well, if you never take action, that money may never come, or maybe it does eventually come, but much later than expected. Even if the affirmation finally manifests, if you never learn financial skills, or never improve yourself, and never adapts when life changes, then simply repeating affirmations probably won't change much. 

What I mean is this. The result may not be sustainable without personal growth. You can become good at the LoA and Manifestation, but from my own experience, I realised that, ACTIVELY DOING THE WORK eventually become exhausting! The real issue is, ACTIVELY MANAGING REALITY! What do I mean by that? Well, actively work, actively managing to GET IT RIGHT! What if life suddenly throws you into chaos? Maybe you experience depression or everything around you start falling apart. Maybe you go through a shocking spiritual experience that completely changes how you see life. At times like these, people don't just lose happiness. They lose track or a sense of meaning. When meaning collapses, it is easy to feel stuck, hopeless, or even unable to function.

For example, the rich guy (I am rich. I am rich. I am rich – yea, finally become rich) suddenly loses RM100,000 because of a failed business. Now here is the interesting part. In that moment, if his interpretation is, “I’m a failure”, then the experience can shrink his sense of identity. He will probably lose confidence, stop moving forward, and miss future opportunities. The suffering stays, but now it also carries shame and helplessness. But if he chooses a different meaning, "This is painful and expensive lesson that taught me how to build a stronger business and where my strategy needs to grow", then everything changes. The loss does not disappear, but it no longer defines him. It becomes information instead of identity. Instead of giving up, he learns, improve his skills, and adapt to the situation. And eventually, create wealth again. 

That is why I believe meaning is one of the missing pieces in many LoA and Manifestation.

Frankl survived The Holocaust. In the concentration camps, he observed that people experienced the same horrific environment, yet they responded very differently. He concluded that while we cannot always choose what happens to us, we can choose the meaning we assign to it. That meaning shapes how we respond, whether we give up or continue moving forward.

Notice something? The event was exactly the same. The difference was not the event. The difference was the Meaning. 

Viktor Frankl called this the "will to meaning." He believed that human beings are not driven only by pleasure or success. Deep down, we are driven by the need to find meaning in our experiences. Once we find meaning, we become more resilient, make wiser decisions, and are able to move forward even after setbacks.

Get it right here. The LoA proposes that those dominant thoughts and emotions attract matching experiences. Manifestation is the outcome (becoming rich, building a successful business, creating a desired relationship). Meaning is the value or purpose we choose to hold on to when things happen to us, especially when we are going through suffering. Psychology explains that those beliefs and emotions influence your decisions, behaviour, resilience, and what opportunities you notice and pursue.

Of course, people can experience results simply by changing their thoughts or using affirmations (but you need “anchor” as well. I explain it later). They might unexpectedly receive a bonus, attract new clients, or even win a jackpot. I don't deny that these things can happen. But here is the question I ask: **Can you sustain it?** 

Imagine he keeps affirming, "I am rich", and one day he receives RM100,000 through an inheritance or by winning a lucky draw. At first, it seems like the LoA worked perfectly. The manifestation happened, but if he never learned financial management, keeps overspending, and continues making poor financial decisions, sooner or later, that RM100,000 may disappear. The manifestation happened. But he wasn’t prepared to keep it. This is where another concept becomes important. I call it Grounding. To me, grounding means anchoring your manifestation into reality. Without grounding, a manifestation may arrive... but it may not stay. 

Long-term LoA and Manifestation is More Sustainable when it is supported by Meaning and Grounding. 

So, in that sense, your mindset can absolutely change your life. But mindset alone is not enough.

Another thing I don't fully agree with is the idea that every bad thing that happens means you attracted it. Life is more complex than that. As I mentioned earlier, there is much bigger system.

Sometimes businesses fail. Sometimes relationships break down. Sometimes people get sick. Sometimes accidents happen. Sometimes natural disasters occur. That does not automatically mean those people were thinking negatively. There are biological factors, environmental factors, economic factors, social factors, and sometimes… life is simply unpredictable. Not everything is within our conscious control.

That is why I see the LoA and Manifestation as tools that help us influence the parts of life we can influence, rather than as explanations for absolutely everything that happens.

I also want to say something that I think is very important. Don't use the LoA and Manifestation to judge yourself or other people. If someone is struggling financially, don't immediately assume they have a "poverty mindset". If someone is experiencing depression or anxiety, don't simply tell them to "think positively". Life is much more complex than that. People deserve compassion, not judgement. Sometimes they need therapy. Sometimes they need medical treatment. Sometimes they need education. Sometimes they simply need someone to listen and support them. The LoA and Manifestation should empower people, not blame them.

Another important point is identity. Many people focus only on getting the outcome. "I want money." "I want love." "I want success." But I think there is a better question to ask: "Who do I need to become?" If I want financial freedom, I probably need to become someone who manages money wisely, keeps learning, solves valuable problems, and stays disciplined. If I want a healthy relationship, I probably need to become emotionally mature, communicate well, and build trust.

In other words, I don't think the LoA and Manifestation are only about attracting. They are also about becoming.

Another thing I have learned is that emotions have a purpose.

Some manifestation teachings tell people to avoid negative emotions completely. Personally, I don't agree. Sadness tells us something needs healing. Fear warns us of possible danger. Anger may tell us that our boundaries have been crossed. These emotions are not our enemies. They are information. The goal is not to suppress them or pretend they don't exist. The goal is to understand them, process them, and respond wisely instead of reacting impulsively.

I have also realised that letting go does not mean giving up. Many people hear the advice, "Just let go." But what does that actually mean? To me, letting go means releasing the need to control every single detail. You still have goals. You still make plans. You still put in the effort. But you stop forcing life to happen exactly according to your own timeline.

Sometimes opportunities arrive in unexpected ways. Sometimes delays teach us something we could not have learned any other way. Life isn't always against us. Sometimes it is preparing us.

Finally, I also think that the LoA and Manifestation become much more effective when they are combined with action. Action creates feedback. Feedback creates learning. Learning creates growth. Growth increases the chances of success. Even if you don't achieve your original goal immediately, every action gives you something. Every mistake gives you information. Every experience helps you improve. To me, the LoA and Manifestation is not passive. They are a partnership between your mindset and your behaviour. 

So, if I had to summarise my perspective, it would be this. Your thoughts influence your beliefs. Your beliefs influence your emotions. Your emotions influence your behaviour. Your behaviour influences your results. But your results are also affected by reality, circumstances, other people, timing, and many factors beyond your control. Instead of trying to control the universe, I prefer focusing on becoming the best version of myself, make wise decisions, and stay open to opportunities, and continue growing throughout life. To me, that is a healthier, and more realistic way to understand the LoA and Manifestation. 

It is not just about attracting what you want. It is about becoming the kind of person who can create it, sustain it, and find meaning in the journey.

Thank you for reading, and I had love to hear your thoughts in the comments. Do you agree, disagree, or see things differently? Let's have a respectful discussion.

Barnaby’s Big Bear-Balance

Title: Barnaby’s Big Bear-Balance

Target Audience: Ages 3–5

Theme: Emotional Regulation & Stillness

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Does your little one have a lot of "wiggles" and "jiggles"?

Barnaby is a very busy, very buzzy cub. He loves to jump, hop, and wiggle—but sometimes, the world feels a little too fast. When Barnaby feels wobbly, his wise friend Silas the Grizzly Bear shows him a special secret: how to find his "Big Bear-Balance."

In this gentle, heart-warming story, children will learn to find their Root (grounding), their Heart (purpose), and their Seed (vision). Through Barnaby’s journey, young readers discover that even the busiest bears can find their inner calm.

Perfect for bedtime reading or anytime a little one needs a moment of peace, Barnaby’s Big Bear-Balance is a beautiful introduction to mindfulness and emotional regulation.

Help your little cub find their balance today. 

[Page 1]

(Illustration: A vibrant, sun-dappled forest. Barnaby, a fluffy, golden-brown cub, is mid-air, trying to catch a butterfly. He looks very wiggly.)

Barnaby Bear was a busy, buzzy cub.

He liked to jump!

He liked to hop!

He liked to wiggle and jiggle and never stop.

[Page 2]

(Illustration: Barnaby has tripped over a root and is lying in a pile of soft, clover-covered grass. He looks a bit confused.)

But sometimes, the world moved too fast for a little bear.

"Oh dear," sighed Barnaby. "I feel so wobbly today."

His paws felt jittery. His tummy felt jumpy. He just couldn't stand still.

[Page 3]

(Illustration: Silas the Grizzly Bear sits on a large, mossy rock. He is big, calm, and solid. Barnaby is looking up at him.)

Silas the Grizzly was the biggest bear in the forest. He sat as still as a mountain.

"Barnaby," rumbled Silas, "a bear needs balance to feel strong. You need your three magic legs."

[Page 4]

(Illustration: Barnaby presses his little paws onto the soft, dark earth.)

"First, the Root," said Silas.

"Press your paws deep into the ground. Feel the earth holding you up?

Deep breath in, deep breath out. Now, you are steady."

[Page 5]

(Illustration: Barnaby puts a paw over his chest, looking happy. Bright, warm colors radiate from his heart.)

"Next, the Heart," said Silas.

"What makes your heart feel warm? Is it honey? Or a hug?

Remember why you are here—to be happy, to be kind, and to be you."

[Page 6]

(Illustration: Barnaby has his eyes closed, smiling. Above his head, a golden, glowing bubble shows him picking berries with his friends.)

"Last, the Seed," said Silas.

"Close your eyes and see your dream. Like a little seed waiting to grow, see what you want to do next.

If you can see it, you can reach it!"

[Page 7]

(Illustration: Barnaby is standing tall on the log across the river. He looks calm and proud.)

Barnaby took a breath.

He felt his Roots in the earth.

He felt the joy in his Heart.

He saw his dream like a Seed in his mind.

Barnaby didn't wiggle. Barnaby didn't jiggle. He walked across the log, steady as a bear can be.

[Page 8]

(Illustration: Barnaby, Silas, and other animal friends sitting together by the river, enjoying a beautiful, quiet sunset.)

"I did it!" cheered Barnaby.

"Paws to the earth, Heart to the aim,

See the dream, and play the game!"

Why Do People Consider Ending Their Own Lives?

This article discusses suicide from an educational and mental health perspective. Some readers or viewers may find the topic emotionally heavy. If you are struggling or know someone who is, please consider reaching out for support. You don’t have to face it alone.

If you are in Malaysia and need immediate support, you may contact Talian HEAL (15555), Befrienders, or local emergency services.

Across cultures and belief systems, ending one’s own life has long been viewed as a serious and troubling act. In many religions, it is considered a major moral wrongdoing. Historically, societies responded to such acts with punishment, shame, or exclusion rather than understanding.

In the 19th century, French psychiatrists such as Esquirol and Pinel introduced a different perspective. They viewed suicidal behaviour not as moral failure, but as a symptom of psychological distress or mental illness. This shift marked the beginning of a more compassionate, medical understanding of the issue.

So, what leads a person to this point?

Research shows that emotional suffering and psychological pressure are common contributors, but they are not the only factors. Some individuals who appear to live stable, “normal” lives may still experience inner turmoil that remains unseen by others.

During the early 20th century in Russia, individuals who attempted to end their lives were heavily stigmatised. They were labelled as mentally unstable and subjected to strict control, including limitations on employment and daily activities. Although the intention was prevention, the approach was harsh and often dehumanising. This system lasted until the early 1970s.

As suicide rates rose in countries such as Russia and Sri Lanka, concern grew. In Moscow, one of the first psychological counselling centres was established in the mid-1970s, focusing particularly on adolescents - a group increasingly affected. Psychiatrists and psychologists worked together, signalling a shift toward prevention and emotional support.

By the late 1980s, deeper contributing factors were identified. Alcohol abuse was widespread and often linked to loss of emotional control, but experts agreed that most suicide cases were not impulsive. They were often the result of prolonged inner struggle and careful contemplation.

Certain communities were found to have higher vulnerability. For example, Finno-Ugric populations in Hungary showed exceptionally high suicide rates. Cultural sensitivity to emotional stress and social pressure appeared to play a role. Similar patterns were observed among Finno-Ugric communities in Udmurtia, Russia, despite differences in lifestyle.

Among adolescents, studies suggest that suicidal thoughts often emerge during the early stages of emotional maturity. Feelings of failure, helplessness, intense emotional pressure, and identity confusion are common at this age. Bullying at school and substance abuse were identified as major contributing stressors.

In Russia, another high-risk group consists of individuals aged 40 to 50. For many, loneliness, difficulty accepting ageing, and struggles adapting to rapid social change contribute to emotional isolation.

Today, many countries have established counselling hotlines and mental health services aimed at early intervention. These services exist to offer support, understanding, and a listening ear. However, their effectiveness depends on one crucial step - the willingness of individuals to reach out.

Ending one’s life is not a solution, but often a signal of pain that has gone unheard for too long.

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UFOs on the African Continent

The African continent comprises more than 40 countries. However, documentation of UFO sightings from this continent is not as extensive as in Europe or America. Because many African countries are still plagued by poverty, famine, and unstable political power, the UFO phenomenon has not received full attention. This does not mean that there have been no UFO manifestations there. When UFO incidents do occur, they are usually known to the international community through reports by Europeans or Americans who are stationed in or visiting the continent.

One of the earliest UFO cases recorded in Africa occurred in Addis Ababa, Ethiopia. One day in October 1935, many local residents witnessed the appearance of a flying saucer hovering in the blue sky. At first, the presence of the object attracted a lot of attention. But when it remained in the sky for too long, many people eventually ignored it.

On 3 September 1954, many plantation workers in Souk-el-Khemis saw an object said to be made of a plastic-like material. At one point, the flying object stopped in mid-air and then swayed several meters above the ground. It then jumped several times erratically in the air before stabilising itself and continuing its flight.

During the devastating earthquakes in Orleansville, Algeria, on 9 September and 26 September 1954, a French citizen reported seeing numerous strange objects flying high across the country.

On 24 October 1954 near Oran, also in Algeria, a small-bodied alien creature was seen on the beach. The creature was said to have a pair of glowing eyes. When this alien appeared in Algeria, dozens of others like it were reported to have landed in France.

In the skies over Ndola, Rhodesia (Zimbabwe), eight flying saucers crossed the country heading north in a “W”-shaped formation. This incident was observed on 26 November 1957.

In April 1959, a round, green-coloured UFO appeared in southern Ethiopia. The object was seen moving erratically in the air over the town of Yergalem. Tunisia, located in the northern part of the continent, began to witness an increase in UFO sightings in the 1950s. 

In September 1965, an orange fireball-shaped UFO passed over Bulawayo in Zimbabwe. The appearance of the object reportedly shook house windows, fences, and caused streetlights to go out.

In Zambia on 15 June 1966, a small metallic-coloured UFO appeared at 1:20 p.m. The sky at that time was cloudless and blue. Suddenly, from another direction, the witnesses saw a second UFO appear. This second object approached the first. The two UFOs then merged in mid-air before departing.

F.C. Edwards, a European living in Botswana, witnessed a UFO shining like a star appearing from the north. The object seemed to hover briefly over Gaberones Airport. No sound was heard. It then changed direction and flew slowly southward.

Several residents of Mozambique were astonished to see a saucer-like object in the skies over Pungwe in Baiara on the night of 13 January 1967. They watched the object more closely when it emitted a white beam of light downward. They observed that when the light struck the clouds, the clouds turned purple. After a few minutes, the beam from beneath the object changed to a bright red colour, and the UFO sped away and disappeared from sight.

At the end of that year, another UFO appeared in Mozambique. On the night of 1 December 1967, near Bazaruto Island, 16 fishermen were startled by a large UFO. The object was said to be in the form of a glowing fireball. It passed over their boat at a distance of only a few yards and flew at great speed. They heard no sound at all. Everything was completely silent. While the UFO was flying there, the entire area became bright like daylight. The light emitted by the object was reported to be blue. The next day, the UFO was seen again at the same time, but this time it came from a different direction.

A UFO was said to have crashed in Madagascar in 1970. However, no official statement was issued by the authorities regarding the foreign object that exploded in a market in Port Dauphin.

High in the sky near Mount Kilimanjaro, Kenya, a passenger aircraft flying through the area encountered a UFO at 7:20 a.m. The pilot and passengers reported that the object was shaped like a bullet. Its size was estimated to be about 200 feet long. The object hovered near the mountain for a long time, as if observing something. Then all the witnesses saw it move upward rapidly into the sky.

At the southern end of the African continent is South Africa. The number of UFO sightings recorded in that country exceeds all other African nations combined. This is because there is strong interest among its European-descended population in investigating and documenting strange occurrences. The UFOs seen in South Africa are similar to those that appeared in other locations across Africa in 1972. That year can be described as the “Year of Visiting South Africa.

A police inspector and his wife saw three UFOs descend low and hover over a bushy area behind their house in Senghor, Senegal. The UFOs, which appeared on 21 October 1974, were said to be as large as an airplane. They then saw a being on the ground beneath the hovering object at a height of about 100 feet. The being looked human but was tall and thin. When the creature moved toward them, the police inspector fired a warning shot. The being was seen turning back, and the UFO descended lower and lifted it inside. The object then immediately sped away and left the area.

In Ghana near Afram, two local residents were planting corn when they noticed a strange object in the air. The object was flying low and close to them and appeared as if it was about to land. They quickly ran toward it. Suddenly, the UFO shot back up into the sky. The UFO seemed to dislike humans interfering with its activities.

In Kabule, Uganda, human activities were briefly disrupted when a UFO flew past a mining site. Many workers there became agitated when they saw a UFO flying in a nearby valley. The mine was located on a hill, and from that position they could see the object clearly. The UFO was flying lower than their position. They quickly shouted to call the mine manager, a Frenchman who was inside the mine at the time. He heard the shouting and commotion outside. But when he came out, the object had already maneuvered around a nearby hill and disappeared from view. One night, while the workers were watching a film, they became excited when a spaceship appeared in the movie. They said the strange object they had seen earlier looked exactly like the spaceship shown in the film.

A Canadian family living in Uganda also claimed to have seen UFOs in the same year. According to them, the foreign objects were saucer-shaped and flew in formation. They managed to take photographs of the objects before the UFOs disappeared.

On 16 September 1995 near Harare, also in Zimbabwe, 62 students from a school saw three UFOs flying in the air. One of them landed close to them. The situation became chaotic when an alien being about three feet tall, wearing a black uniform, emerged from the UFO. In the ensuing commotion, the UFO quickly took off again.

• 28 August 1996: Lights in the sky were videotaped near Pretoria; police and a helicopter reportedly tracked them but could not identify them. 

• 2000: A police inspector in Free State reported an orange, oval-shaped light approaching on the N3 highway; this was documented as a personal sighting. 

• 2004: A bright light that changed shape was seen near Durban and recorded by a resident. 

• 2009: Formation of multiple orange-red lights seen traveling high in the sky between Middelburg and Witbank. 

• 2010–2011: Silent triangle lights were reported over Pretoria and Krugersdorp. 

• 2015: People reported mysterious green lights over Cape Town that remained unexplained for some time. 

• 2016: A mysterious silent object spotted low in the sky near Harrismith was captured in photos by a witness. 

• Between 2022 and 2024, the U.S. military’s All-domain Anomaly Resolution Office (AARO) received and archived unresolved UAP reports originating from Africa—including infrared footage showing an apparent object that could not be conclusively explained with available data. 

Psychology and Spiritualism

 

I began reading Tarot Cards in 2007, but my journey with card reading (poker cards) started even earlier, when I was just 12. 

I kept my special abilities under wraps, but my curiosity in spiritualism is evident.

I even pursuing psychology alongside spiritualism to understand more about human experience and consciousness. 

Through metaphysical and psychological understanding, I help people connect with their inner selves, offering guidance, clarity, and insights into life's mysteries.

My approach is one of balance - to help others unlock their full potential and embrace the miracles life has to offer, whether through tarot readings, workshops on the Law of Attraction, or exploring the mysteries of consciousness.

Pursuing psychology alongside spiritualism is a good combination. Psychology primarily seeks to understand behaviour, thought processes, and emotions through scientific study, spiritualism looks at deeper metaphysical aspects like the soul, purpose, and connection with the universe. 

Psychology can help to ground and explain spiritual experiences by exploring how the mind perceives and interprets these events.

Psychological theories on consciousness, intuition, and altered states of mind, such as in meditation or trance, can offer insights into spiritual experiences. 

Trance/Flow, in psychology, is a state of heightened focus in an activity, often described as being "in the zone." Theories of flow explain that when individuals are fully engaged in an activity that challenges them just enough, they experience a sense of timelessness, effortlessness, and connection. Spiritually, this flow state can be compared to moments of divine connection or alignment with the universe, where an individual feels in sync with something greater than themselves. 

Meditation induces an altered state of consciousness where brainwave patterns shift, particularly increasing alpha and theta waves. Psychologically, these states are associated with deep relaxation, intuition, and heightened awareness - states that are often linked to spiritual experiences, such as feeling a sense of oneness, accessing subconscious wisdom, or receiving insights. Meditation allows the mind to quieten, which many spiritual traditions believe is essential for connecting with the higher self, the divine, or universal consciousness. 

The Myth of Limitless Manifestation

 

Myth: You Can Manifest Anything Without Limit

The idea that you can manifest anything without limit is a common yet misleading belief in the world of Law of Attraction. While the concept of limitless possibilities is appealing, it often disregards the practical realities of life, the natural laws that govern the universe.

Understanding the Myth

The myth of limitless manifestation suggests that you can attract anything into your life, no matter the circumstances or consequences. This notion is often perpetuated by oversimplified interpretations of the Law of Attraction, where the focus is solely on desire and visualisation without considering the broader context. It implies that the universe is a wish-granting entity that will deliver whatever you ask for, regardless of the natural order or the impact on others.

The Reality Check: Alignment with Universal Laws

While the Law of Attraction is a powerful tool, its effectiveness is amplified when used in alignment with universal laws. Here's why:

Boundaries of Natural Laws: The Law of Attraction functions within the framework of the natural laws of the universe. For example, no amount of visualisation can change the law of gravity or the necessity of hard work to achieve certain goals. When your manifestations are in harmony with these laws, they are more likely to come to fruition. Understanding these laws allows you to set realistic goals and work towards them with the right mindset.

Ethical Alignment: Your desires should not only be focused on personal gain but also consider the greater good. Manifesting with a selfish or harmful intent disrupts the universal balance and often leads to negative outcomes. For example, manifesting wealth at the expense of others' well-being or environmental destruction will not only harm others but may also backfire on you.

Interconnectedness: The universe is a web of interconnected energies, and your actions have a ripple effect. When your desires are aligned with the greater good, you are more likely to receive support from the universe. Positive intentions that contribute to the well-being of others create a flow of energy that supports your manifestations.

The Path to True Manifestation

True manifestation is not about bending the universe to your will without regard for natural laws or ethical considerations. Instead, it is about understanding the principles that govern the universe and working in harmony with them. This means:

Setting Realistic Goals: Understanding that some things cannot be manifested instantly or without effort. Align your desires with what is realistically achievable within the natural order.

Considering the Impact: Always think about how your manifestations will affect others and the world around you. Aim for outcomes that benefit not just yourself but also the greater good.

Acting in Harmony: Use the Law of Attraction to align your thoughts, feelings, and actions with universal principles. When you do so, you tap into a powerful flow of energy that supports your journey towards your goals.

While you can manifest many things in your life, it is important to remember that the Law of Attraction works best when it is in alignment with the natural laws of the universe and ethical considerations. By understanding and respecting these boundaries, you can create a life that is not only fulfilling for you but also in harmony with the world around you.

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Mindfulness Meditation l The Benefit Of Meditation And How To Meditate

Meditation Make Your Day In A Positive Way. It Goes Inward To Focus On What Feels Good In Mind And Body. Allow Your Mind And Body To Rest.

I would like to share with you about my first experience with meditation. Meditation seems easy because what you need to do is sit still (walk or lie down meditation), close your eyes (be mindful) and still your mind, but it is actually not easy. Within a minute or two, your mind (Monkey Mind) starts to wander! Meditation is good to practice controlling our mind from being Monkey (restless) 

How-To: 

After sit comfortably and close your eyes, 

1. Pay attention to your breath. 

2. When mind starts to wander, return the mind and remain in the present moment. 

3. Focus on your breath, follow your breath. Inhale, exhale. 

Benefit of Meditation: 

1. Lower stress levels. 

2. Get to know our pain. 

3. Improve focus. 

4. Be kinder to ourselves.

Harry and Meghan Compatibility

Why do people have a problem with Meghan and Prince Harry?

Let's concern the relationships between two birthday charts.
Prince Harry born in 15th September 1984.
Meghan born on 4th August 1981.
Always use your own logic and intuition to value judgement on a relationship.

Meghan is an American former D-list actress before she met Prince Harry.
She has been enriched by this relationship, which led to the discovery of a new world, original and full of change.

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A great passionate affair, very intense and transforming.
They will go well together, but Harry may resist marriage, at least on a formal level. The relationship works better when the bond is not formalised, simply for the sake of Harry's sense of freedom.      

A life together with few problems.
Sometimes, Harry can be too rigid or might prefer a quiet, uneventful life while Meghan wants to be freer and more spontaneous. This can be difficulties feeling free in one another's presence.

Harry might end up feeling used or frustrated in this relationship. There may be deceptions, lies, or promises of a fantastic future that only exists in the imagination, or more likely, an inability to see clearly and projection of wonderful qualities.
It can be difficult for Meghan to live up to these and might begin to back off or feel overwhelmed.

Love tends to develop into friendship. Their relationship can be a little routine at times.
There can be a certain level of self-consciousness together that is always present.
This one indicates that they will be faithful to one another.

Birthdate: April 1, 10, 19, 28.

What does your birthdate say about your personality? See what's your true nature according to your birthdate.

People born in April 1st, 10th, 19th, 28th, and in the year of 1994, 1985, 1976, 1967, 1958, 1949, 1940.
You are: INDEPENDENT
Systematic But Lack Of Confidence, So The Result Cannot Be Outstanding.
You are a lively character and do not need a push for every step you take: the ups and downs of life are just different levels to you.

Professional, Detailed-Oriented, Good At Planning.
Because of your ability to handle difficult situations, you play an important role both at home or at work.

Take Initiative But Hopefully, Do Not Start With A Roar.
The Type With Short Attention Span. Ending With Only A Whimper.
The pity is - you lack courage. You know what you want but you tend to hesitate and may even retreat at the last minute. Therefore, you seldom persevere to the end and may give up midway.

Birthdate: March 1, 10, 19, 28 / December 1, 10, 19, 28

What does your birthdate say about your personality? See what's your true nature according to your birthdate.

People born in March 1st, 10th, 19th, 28th and December 1st, 10th, 19th, 28th, and in the year of 1993, 1984, 1975, 1966, 1957, 1948, 1939.
You are: SELF-ENCOURAGED
A Motivated Person

Self-Critical.
Quick recovery is a recurring subject in your life. You have a frightening recovery capability no matter it's in your personal sphere or outside environment.

Strong Sense Of Pursuit Towards Goals.
Personally speaking, even upon failure, you will pick yourself up though with a little less confidence. In the outside world, you would reclaim a lost position or lead a team to its original status.

Hot-Tempered; Not Bothered With Trivialities; Always Busy.
Sometimes You Are Suspicious Of Your Own Targets And Lose Direction, Ending In A Streesful State.
But sometimes, you would lose your patience and give up half-way.

Kate Middleton 9 January 1982

Biography

Kate Middleton born 9 January 1982 at Royal Berkshire Hospital in Reading to an upper-middle-class family. 

Her parents who in 1987 founded Party Pieces, a mail-order private company that sells party supplies and decorations with an estimated worth of £30 million. The family of her father Michael has ties to British aristocracy and benefited financially from trust funds which they had established over 100 years ago.  

In 2001, Middleton met Prince William while they were both students in residence at St Salvator's Hall at the University of St Andrews, a likely future queen consort.                   

What does her birthdate say about her personality? See what's her true nature according to her birthdate.

She is born on 9 January is ruled by Capricorn

A Dreamer with Self-Indulgence

A 'lone-ranger', prefer doing everything alone. Very arrogant and do not like to ask for help. 
Forward-thinking. Her greatest asset is innovative power therefore she will perform well in any professional field. Though she will attract a group of supporters, the opposition will follow. Goal-orientated. 
Outwardly, you seem to be a 'cool' unsociable person but only your very close friends will be able to see your passionate inner self. Dictatorial.

She is born in 1982.

Opinionated.
The Contradictory Type.

- Gifted talker and able to read what is in others' mind, making her a good middle-person.
- Attract opposition or have others scheming against her.

Indecisive and Lack Of Confidence.
Not one to keep her opinions to herself and in addition, cannot hold back any information. Others may see her as shallow but on the contrary, she could be very serious and sophisticated except she speaks her mind very frankly. 
Suggest that when the time calls for decision-making, do not be too passive or opportunities will pass her by. She could be 'somebody' if she aligns her dual personalities.

People Born In January and October

What does your birthdate say about your personality? See what's your true nature according to your birthdate.

People born in January and October the 1st, 10th, 19th, 28th, and people born in the year of 1991, 1982, 1973, 1964, 1955, 1946, 1937.
You are: OPINIONATED
Dictatorial

Suitable To Be A Broker, An Agent Or A Middle-Man.
Gifted talker and able to read what is in others' mind, making you a good middle-man.

You Attract Opposition Or Have Others Scheming Against You.
Cannot accept defeat hence when your luck is down, you will work doubly hard and may end up paying a very high price.

The Contradictory Type

Indecisive, Lack Of Confidence.
You are not one to keep your opinions to yourself and in addition, you cannot hold back any information. Others may see you as shallow but on the contrary, you could be very serious and sophisticated except you speak your mind very frankly.

Dual Personality.
Suggest that when the time calls for decision-making, you do not be too passive or opportunities will pass you by. You could be 'somebody' if you align your dual personalities.


People born in January and October the 2nd, 11th, 20th, 29th, and people born in the year of 2001, 2010.
You are: OUTSPOKEN
Have A Desire To Control And Manipulate

An Authoritative Decision Maker.
You want to be commander whether at home, work or play.

Possess Persuasive And Convincing Power, Able To Kick Start Projects.
You are considered the star in the drama of life, a commentator of a powerful specialist in a professional field. At work, you wield an outstanding and magnetic power thereby gathering many submissive fans.

Like To Issue Orders, Direct Others, Sometimes May Be Over The Limit.
When you need others to work according to your instructions, you will use restrictive orders that they may dislike.

Have Supervisory And Management Skills.
You will not permit yourself to be deterred by any obstacles but will resume your march forward after licking your wounds.


People born in January and October the 3rd, 12th, 21st, 30th.
You are: FRIVOLOUS
Stubborn

Lack Of Will Power To Self-Motivate, Do Not Initiate Things.
Being passive is your way of life. Whether in private or at work, you are almost never able to discern the level of importance of any matter.

Wish To Be Loved And Protected.
Deep down, you need to be accepted and appreciated with the spotlight on you alone. You may be considered unrealistic, thirsting for adoration or terribly innocent.

Continuous Learning.
You have an unseen side - your absorption power is strong and you are quick-witted. You are willing to put in more hours than others in learning, hence can easily win approval.

Need Other's Encouragement And Push To Achieve Success.
Sometimes, in order to give yourself an easy way out, you will find a reason not to complete the job.

People born in January and October 4th, 13th, 22nd, 31st.
You are: HAVE PLANS
No Definite Plan

No Team Member
You stick to your own principles and give others the impression that they should take it or leave it. You also appear to have a thinker's cool demeanor.

Never Complete A Project.
You like to be on the sidelines and silently weigh the situation before coming up with a solution, but you do not have the confidence to carry it out so you stop in your tracks. Because of that, you always need encouragement before you can smoothly accomplish any assignment without hesitation.


People born in January and October 5th, 14th, 23rd.
You are: ALWAYS ON THE GO
Indecisive

Always traveling long journeys, mostly duty trips.
You are active and productive but your nature persists in maintaining your own outlook. This negative point prevents you from progress, makes you lose direction and defer decision-making.

Principled, Self-Centred.
Deep down, you get most interested when you have handled everything in tip-top order. Your priority is not money but you certainly know how to enjoy a classy lifestyle. As a dressing highly affects your moods and behaviour, you place great importance on accessories, types of materials and tailoring.


People born in January and October 6th, 15th, 24th.
You are: A SPENDTHRIFT
A Self-Propelled Financier.
Like To Self-Adorn

Regularly spend money on yourself; one who is devoted to trends.
You place great importance on grooming, fashion, and home decoration. You may even place 'style' as your ultimate goal.

Will Spend Time To Decorate The Home, Keep The House Spick And Span.
You will spend time and thought just to ensure that your home decor is perfectly matched and adored.

Demand The Highest Quality In Everything, A High-Class Personality.
You are easily attracted to anything considered beautiful and exquisite and you know that a first is also a lasting impression. Once you allow this nature to develop, there is no turning back.


People born in January and October 7th, 16th, 25th.
You are: OTHER PEOPLE

A Low Profile Leader.
You believe in yourself and feel that you can handle any situation, to the point of being seen as too capable. That is the reason for some people to rely on you and in the end, they will become a burden to you. You are constantly on the move because of society, friends, and family.

Easily Cause People To Talk Unpleasantly Behind Your Back.
You are the target for envy, animosity, and objections purely because your excellent leadership ability makes you seem distant or overly sharp.


People born in January and October 8th, 17th, 26th.
You are: DUTIES ABOUND
Independent Worker

Hardworking, Not Afraid Of Labour; Regularly Under Pressure. Do Not Know How To Ask For Help.
You place higher expectations on yourself than others, but others may not have noticed that. This does not mean that you are a perfectionist but your fussiness makes it difficult for others to work or live with you so in the end, you may be battling on your own.

Will Attract Many Business Opportunities. May Be Pre-Occupied With Too Many Jobs At The Same Time.
You will get many opportunities but you inevitably take the wrong first step, so your confident start ends in failure. Suggest that you concentrate on one project only as more will cause you to lose focus as well as direction. You will only succeed when you execute your duties step by step.


People born in January and October 9th, 18th, 27th.
You are: A DREAMER
Self-Indulgence

A Loner, Prefer Doing Everything Alone.
A 'lone-ranger', you are very arrogant and do not like to ask for help.

Forward-Thinking, Innovative, Goal-Orientated.
Your greatest asset is your innovative power therefore you will perform well in any professional field. Though you will attract a group of supporters, the opposition will follow.

Unsociable, Dictatorial.
Outwardly, you seem to be a 'cool' person but only your very close friends will be able to see your passionate inner self. 

Birthdate: February 1, 10, 19, 28 / November 1, 10, 19, 28

What does your birthdate say about your personality? See what's your true nature according to your birthdate.

People born in February 1st, 10th, 19th, 28th and November 1st, 10th, 19th, 28th, and in the year of 1992, 1983, 1974, 1965, 1956, 1947, 1938.
You are:
STRAIGHTFORWARD
Expressive

Frank, hence easily ignites arguments.
You speak out your mind. You mean and do what you say. You will not hesitate to speak up whenever you meet with unsatisfactory matters.

Easily irritated.
Similarly, you are also an impulsive and stubborn person. When others' views do not conform to yours, you may become angry and impatient but your temper subsides just as quickly.

Understand self-discipline, self-motivated.
You will always be there with words of encouragement and support whenever those around you meet with failure so that they will pick themselves up and try again.

Prince William 21 June 1982 9.03pm

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Prince William (William Arthur Philip Louis; born 21 June 1982 at 9.03pm) is heir to the British throne, after his father Prince Charles. William was born at Lindo Wing of St.Mary's Hospital, London.

A person born on June 21 is ruled by Cancer. 1982 is Year of the Dog. 9.03pm is Hour of the Pig.

What does his birthdate say about his personality? See what's his true nature according to his birthdate.

Opinionated

- Gifted talker and able to read what is in others' mind, making him a good middle-man.
- Attract Opposition Or Have Others Scheming Against Him.

The Contradictory Type

He is Indecisive and Lack Of Confidence.
Not one to keep his opinions to himself and in addition, cannot hold back any information. Others may see him as shallow but on the contrary, he could be very serious and sophisticated except he speaks his mind very frankly. 
Suggest that when the time calls for decision-making, do not be too passive or opportunities will pass him by. He could be 'somebody' if he aligns his dual personalities.

What Is Destiny?

一命、二運、三風水

First Destiny, Second Luck, Third Fengshui

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Asia moguls used Feng Shui to enrich their wealth. They used Masters to guide everything from businesses to investments.
Even Bazi Masters advise certain famous people to deliberately plan for early retirement from the public life.

Feng Shui work is usually easy to understand and visible, but Bazi is usually veiled and unseen-able.

Bazi Is The Diagnosis, Feng Shui Is The Prescription 

Many people still don't understand the composite between Bazi and Feng Shui.

If Feng Shui was so easy, then everybody should be rich.

Feng Shui only helps to provide an impact based on an individual's life capacity.
Everyone is born with certain life path. This rules their potential to achieve certain life outcomes. 

Even though destiny (命) cannot be change but luck (運) can. The path to a destination become smoother and achieved easily when luck is good. The Chinese often call this Destiny and Fortunes (命運).

Destiny Issues

Men at some times are masters of their fates - William Shakespeare.

Many believe that they can achieve anything with their ability to fully control their lives.

But one will realise that there is somehow at a point where greater forces work beyond our control.

Which you are not meant to have, you can never have - Chinese saying.

However, this does not mean that you cannot improve things in life because the study of Destiny is all about knowing your ability and control.

Fated Problem

Never take destiny as fate! Destiny is about an individual life capacity which turn into affinity (緣), concerning an individual make decisions and take certain actions which will help one to achieve or to avoid certain outcomes.

The Limitations

Many questioned the point in making an effort if everything is predestined.
Everyone is not born equal. Everyone is born unique. Not everyone is DESTINED to become President of the USA or the Queen of England or a multi-millionaire. There is only one Barack Obama, one Queen Elizabeth, and one Warren Buffett.

天 (Heaven)

地 (Earth)

人 (Man)

A person with a small capacity may achieve many things based on hard work and positive thinking whereas a person with ample capacity may waste his potential by do nothing.
To know one's limits in life is to aware the no-go. It can save many people from overwhelming distress. Life would be more pleasant.
Knowing your potential and limits is what the Destiny aimed to help people to understand themselves and to make better use.